What it is: The Family Counselling Service (familievernet) provides counselling and therapy for couples and families, and also delivers mediation (mekling) connected to separation and divorce when parents have children under 16.
Why this matters in a Do Better Norge context
Many family disputes become βlegalβ because the conflict is unmanaged. Familievernkontor can be a practical, early tool to:
- Lower conflict intensity (especially where children are caught in the middle).
- Create more stable parenting cooperation and routines.
- Obtain a mediation certificate when required.
What they offer (typical services)
- Couples counselling
- Family counselling / therapy
- Mediation (mekling) in connection with legal separation / relationship breakdown
- Support for parenting cooperation and communication
Mekling certificate (separation/divorce requirement)
Bufdirβs English information notes that parents (married, and in many cases cohabiting) with joint children under 16 must attend mediation and obtain a mediation certificate before separation/divorce processing can proceed.
How to use the service effectively
- Prepare a child-focused agenda: routines, stability, safe communication.
- Bring your key documents: existing agreements, school schedules, travel constraints.
- Ask for written outcomes: agreed points, next steps, and certificate where relevant.
Local offices across Norway
Family counselling offices are available nationwide. The official pages include guidance and routes to find and contact your local office.
Sources & further reading
- Bufdir: Family counselling services (familievernet)
- Bufdir (PDF): The Family Counselling Service (English brochure)
Do Better Norge note: Mediation is not just a formality. A well-prepared session can create a documented cooperation track that protects childrenβand protects your credibility later if conflict escalates.
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